Be on the look out for these

Channel: Mack Herman
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19ui6OJpfgk

Four concrete examples of what a genuine bid for connection from an avoidant looks like -- each one shows vulnerability, asks for your time, and leaves no ambiguity.

Key points

• "Do you want to go on a walk with me?" -- a simple but real invitation to shared time.
• "I've been thinking about you and want to set up a time to talk" -- requires vulnerability and concrete action.
• "I miss you, when are you free this week?" -- communicates longing and a request for your time.
• After distance or a breakup: "I've been thinking about the relationship and want to hear you out" -- may signal openness to reconciliation, at minimum a gentle closure.
• These bids communicate trust and a desire for closeness; you are safe to respond but not obligated to.