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Coach Red Pill - Girls dont wanna fck their friends

Channel: CRP Archive
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IXepyeqinQ

The speaker argues men and women can never truly be friends because sexual interest always intrudes, so trying to befriend a woman as a route to sex is futile.

Key points

  • Core claim: men and women cannot be platonic friends because the "sex thing" always gets in the way; we are animals driven by lust.
  • The "beta orbiter" is the man who circles a woman as a friend hoping for sex; once in the beta orbit, a man almost never escapes it unless he leaves, becomes successful, and returns aloof.
  • It runs both ways: a woman who is always calling a man to "shoot the breeze" often wants him, even if she denies it.
  • Two personal anecdotes (friends "Susan" and "Paula") illustrate the friendship collapsing once romantic mismatch surfaced.
  • Men sort women into categories: "invisible" older women they ignore, the fertile 18-40 range they mostly desire, and a roughly 10 percent "sister zone" they find cute but feel no sexual interest in and are protective of.
  • Women say they want a friend as a partner, but the speaker claims they actually want a challenge -- a man slightly beyond their reach who pursues his own interests.
  • Advice: do not try to sneak into a woman's pants by being her friend; pursue women you want directly, and reserve real friendship for trustworthy men.

Reception

  • Comments are dominated by tributes and "RIP" messages mourning the creator (Gonzalo / Coach Red Pill), reported as having died in Ukrainian custody.
  • Several men strongly agreed, saying they had been beta orbiters and that no useful advice ever comes from female friends.
  • One commenter offered a counter-method: you can leave the friend zone by becoming more attractive, being a challenge, and staying emotionally unavailable.
  • A few pushed back -- one said he has many female friends and "sex is overrated."
  • A female commenter affirmed the "sister category" idea, saying she has guy friends who are like brothers with no attraction either way.