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Coach Red Pill - Women Start at the Top, Men Start at the Bottom

Channel: CRP Archive
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=30rXVEasEyI

The speaker argues that, driven by evolution, women peak in attractiveness young and decline with age while men start low and rise as they accumulate resources -- so young men should not despair.

Key points

  • Young men (18-23) are at the bottom: no marketable skills, no resources, no self-confidence, and nobody seeks them out.
  • Young women (18-23) are at the peak of sexual attractiveness and fertility; everyone wants their attention. From there it is a slow fade.
  • A woman's attractiveness is framed as a "depreciating asset" that collapses in value around age 35-45, what the manosphere calls "hitting the wall." A small minority stay attractive past 40-45.
  • Men get more attractive with age because, the speaker claims, a man's sexual value is tied to resources -- better job prospects, accumulated assets, gravitas and experience.
  • Women's self-confidence comes from external attention (rooted in fertility); men's comes from achievement and doing things.
  • The framing is explicitly evolutionary: humans are animals/primates, a woman's peak fertility is her early 20s, and a man with resources can provide for offspring.
  • Advice to miserable young men, especially self-described incels: you do not need to do anything special; just move forward, succeed at your goals, accumulate resources, and a virtuous cycle of attention and effort follows. For women, "this is as good as it gets."

Reception

  • Largely supportive among the (small) audience, with several "golden video" and "needed to hear this" reactions.
  • Multiple comments are memorials noting the creator (identified as Gonzalo Lira) had died, with one claiming he died in a Ukrainian jail cell.
  • Some viewers offered anecdotal confirmation, e.g. a man near 35 describing women noticing him in a store, and a 33-year-old reporting a shift in his dating options.
  • One commenter pushed back partially, noting men are not guaranteed a good life with age and still have to work for it.
  • A few comments endorsed pursuing the youngest women, drawing no visible agreement or disagreement from others.