I can promise you 2 things, it'll grow you, and you'll regret it if you don't

Channel: Mack Herman
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_7pdBHDg78

A direct encouragement to avoidants to stay in the relationship longer than they did last time, framing the discomfort of staying as growth worth pursuing.

Key points

• Mack cannot promise the relationship will work out or that the avoidant won't get hurt again.
• She can promise that pushing in and staying brings growth and healing, even if the outcome is uncertain.
• The core ask: stay longer than you did last time and do the work.