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Five traits of fearful avoidant attachment as they show up in women, driven by simultaneous craving for and fear of closeness.

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Mixed signals: texts all night and makes plans, then suddenly pulls back -- closeness feels good and terrifying at once.
Hot and cold affection: swings between overflowing warmth and emotional detachment as her nervous system oscillates between craving and needing space.
Overthinking motives: analyzes every word and pause even when you are being consistent, fearing abandonment or betrayal.
Walls around vulnerability: wants deep connection but holds back, keeps secrets, or uses humor to deflect because letting you in feels too risky.
Pursuit-withdrawal cycles: chases when you pull back to feel secure, then distances herself the moment closeness returns -- not a game, but fear of intimacy and abandonment in conflict.