Ever felt someone pull away right when things got good? #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment¶

Avoidants crave love but are wired to flee it when it feels too stable, because love in their early life was chaos rather than safety.

Key points¶

If what you offer feels too steady, the avoidant may break it just to feel what is familiar to them.
Unhealed avoidants tend to chase chaos, create it, and hurt people in the process.