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How to Flirt For Beginners (9 Flirting Tips)

Channel: Psych2Go
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mzOX2pnRuA

Nine characteristics, drawn from a Dr. Aaron Ben-Zeev Psychology Today article, that the channel claims improve your odds of flirting effectively. There is no formula, but these traits raise the chances.

Key points

  • Nonverbal behavior: moderate eye contact (not too intense), a genuine smile, good hygiene and scent.
  • Intelligence: show wit and educated, natural conversation.
  • A gentle approach: stay respectful and mature; if they're uncomfortable, stop.
  • Cheerfulness: people want a partner who makes them happy.
  • Romantic intention: signal romance via a look in the eyes or gentle touch.
  • Courage and determination: confidence to actually approach and deliver the line.
  • Something in common: learn their interests beforehand so you can keep the conversation going.
  • Good looks: present your best self with hygiene and a favorite outfit.
  • A mysterious allure: be honest but don't reveal everything at once; leave them wanting more.