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How Some Men Create Instant Magnetic Attraction With Women | True Case Study

Channel: Chris Canwell
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPOQb7-dGoY

TL;DR: The speaker argues that some men trigger obsession in women effortlessly by being genuinely indifferent while still forming intense eye contact, making the woman work to win them over rather than the reverse.

Key points

  • The speaker recalls a friend ("John") who had many women obsessed with him despite not being especially rich, successful, or good looking.
  • When asked how he did it, John could not explain it; he joked he was often half drunk, which the speaker says did not really account for it.
  • By observing John, the speaker noticed specific behaviors when meeting women for the first time.
  • John would lock eyes very intensely with a woman and shake her hand, then act completely disinterested.
  • He spoke little, nodded, smoked, kept his arms folded, and seemed nonchalant, almost bored.
  • The speaker claims women would "melt like butter" under his intense gaze despite his lack of effort.
  • The speaker contrasts this with most men, who claim they make no effort but actually pull out "110% effort" once face to face with an attractive woman: talking non-stop and acting like a "simp."
  • He argues many men think they will behave one way but act the opposite in front of a beautiful woman.
  • John did not care whether women were beautiful and gave them little attention because he already had so much female attention.
  • The speaker describes this as a "steamroller" effect: more women leads to more attraction and attention, building momentum, so a man stops caring whether any individual woman likes him.
  • He claims a man without abundant attention is very vulnerable to a woman's charms and will not do what is needed to create obsession.
  • The prescription stated as fact: be indifferent, do not give too much attention or make too much effort, but lock eyes deeply to form a perceived connection so the woman works to win him over.
  • The speaker dismisses the objection that "women have changed," asserting their biology and psychology have not changed.
  • He stresses that acting disinterested around a woman you like is genuinely difficult, looks easy, and most men who think they can do it cannot.
  • His core claim: to create real obsession you must be truly unaffected by women, not just say or think it but actually be so in reality.

Reception

  • Generally agreeing on the core idea: indifference, an "unaffected" attitude, and never breaking frame.
  • Commenters reinforce that the hard part is being around beautiful women without trying too hard; one recounts watching a woman shoot down a crowd of men and pick the one in the corner who ignored her.
  • Self-deprecating humor is common, with several joking about repelling women or writing their own "how not to be a simp" book.
  • Skepticism toward "just be yourself": a few argue that only works if you already have the looks and charm of someone like Henry Cavill.
  • One longer comment shares a real-world dating playbook (gym, professional photos, sorting hard) rather than the indifference framing.