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"THIS" Makes a Woman Think About You Non-Stop

Channel: Bobby Rio
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnTLX7eOL68

Bobby Rio (co-creator of the "Scrambler" method with Rob Judge) argues that a man moves a woman from mildly interested to obsessed by occupying her thoughts when he is not around, and lays out five tactics for doing so.

Key points

  • Core premise: the more a woman thinks about you while you are apart, the more she falls for you. Many "nice guys" unknowingly do things that make her think about them less. Men with abundance tend to do these things naturally.
  • No sure thing: if she leaves a date certain everything went well and you are fully into her, she has nothing to anticipate. Avoid signalling certainty (e.g. inviting her to an event three months out). Bobby's example: ending dates with a vague "see you soon" instead of pinning down the next date kept his girlfriend guessing.
  • Be less predictable: predictability gives her nothing to think about. Occasionally break a pattern -- e.g. skip the routine goodnight text so she wonders why it did not come. Break expectations sometimes, not all the time.
  • Become three-dimensional: women pigeonhole you (e.g. "the spiritual guy") and then take you for granted. Introduce a contradiction (spiritual but ruthless in business) so you read as multi-dimensional. Cites Han Solo as the compelling three-dimensional character versus the one-dimensional Luke Skywalker.
  • Less nice-guy behavior: nice guys are agreeable and conflict-averse, which removes the "drama" women supposedly feed on. Some men create drama by having their lives in disarray (cancelling plans, flaking), which keeps her thinking about them even as she complains. A little manufactured friction adds perceived passion.
  • Mystery: the more mystery, the more she thinks about you. Example: a vague social post (a beer and a martini glass captioned "good company") provokes more curiosity than a clear photo. Warns against overdoing it -- too much unpredictability or jerk behavior with no hope of a relationship makes her quit.

Reception

  • The comment section is overwhelmingly mocking; almost no one engages with the advice sincerely.
  • The most-liked replies satirize the tips as describing a stalker or criminal (basement jokes, restraining orders, "always watching" photos).
  • A recurring sarcastic recap frames the five steps as "make her uncertain, make her worry, contradict yourself, be a douche, be secretive."
  • Several top comments push the opposite advice: just be yourself, do not play manipulative games, the right person will not require tactics.
  • Many commenters express confusion or embarrassment at the video being recommended to them.