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#1 Dating Tip for "Older Guys" | Use THIS Technique for Younger Women

Channel: Bobby Rio
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_UFgPOSZrg

Bobby Rio argues that older men hurt their own chances with younger women by acting like approval-seeking nice guys, and that they should instead lean into the "older man" fantasy by positioning themselves as the confident, dominant prize.

Key points

  • A lot of older men treat their age as a disadvantage, especially with younger women, and overcompensate by trying too hard to impress, over-complimenting, and being approval-seeking.
  • This is a turnoff: many women associate an older man with confidence, self-assurance, and a degree of dominance, and the speaker says that is the fantasy they want.
  • Older men often talk themselves out of making a move even when a woman is giving clear signals, assuming she is just being friendly or too young to be interested. That, he says, breaks the fantasy.
  • The advice is to tap into the fantasy of being with an older man and position yourself so the younger woman chases your approval rather than the reverse.
  • He claims that with 12 years of coaching clients in their 40s, 50s, and 60s, the fixes are easy, including small things like how you answer when she asks your age.
  • He says attraction to older men is biological, not about money, and that most men fail to embrace and show off the traits women are instinctively drawn to.
  • He claims some clients find dating easier now than in their 20s once they use these techniques.

Reception

  • Comments are overwhelmingly skeptical and often mocking, with the most-liked replies pushing back on the premise.
  • The single biggest theme is that it really is about money: many top comments insist women are drawn to older men for wealth, summed up by lines like "she's not your girl, it's just your turn."
  • A recurring criticism is that a coach in his 40s has no standing to advise men in their 60s and 70s.
  • Many commenters advocate staying single, citing post-divorce relief, pets, hobbies, and solitude over dating.
  • A competing minority echoes the video: be confident, stay in shape, do not chase approval, and do not take rejection personally. Several older men describe successful relationships with much younger partners.