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5 ways to tell even if they aren't online

Channel: Mack Herman
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUh1QgE8cdQ

Five signs an ex regrets the breakup even when they have no social media presence.

Key points

  • They linger in shared spaces: keeping ties to mutuals or frequenting places you go to stay passively connected.
  • They send indirect check-ins: random, unrelated texts just to get a reaction ("Did you ever get that thing fixed?").
  • They go silent but stay reachable: no blocking, no cutting ties -- they want you to wonder and hope you reach out first.
  • Mutuals drop breadcrumbs on their behalf ("he asked how you were").
  • For avoidants, silence itself is regret; they just lack the tools to face it directly.