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Men Admire Other Men - but Women Hate Other Women | CRP

Channel: CRP Archive
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IcfSrpMDvfg

The speaker argues that men admire and look up to higher-status men while women instinctively try to tear down any woman who rises above them, framing this as an evolutionary difference in how each sex handles social hierarchy.

Key points

  • Core claim: men respect and want to emulate admirable men; women resent and seek to pull down women who are better than them, and feel satisfaction when a high-status woman "crashes and burns."
  • Men need a pecking order but accept their place once it is established; being respected at one's tier is enough, so there is no drive to destroy those above.
  • Women are framed as more relentlessly competitive over social rank. Lacking the deterrent of physical violence that forces men to settle hierarchies, their competition supposedly never stops.
  • A woman's weapon is gossip: putting other women down behind their backs and eliciting resentment from the group to enforce sameness, so no woman stands out.
  • Practical warning aimed at high-status men: a girlfriend's female friends will flirt with and try to take a quality man, and may feed him lies about her, because women allegedly do not want a peer's happiness. Men, by contrast, are happy for a friend who lands a great partner and despise the rare "douchebag" who poaches.
  • "A woman hides evil when she smiles" is offered as a truism.
  • Closing frame: feminism is called a "neo-Victorianism" that paints women as flawless angels; the speaker insists women are human animals with agency and drives, governed like all primates by survival and reproduction.

Reception

  • Strongly affirming overall, with many comments calling it accurate and citing personal experience (a wife's friends/cousins showing jealousy; job loss to such behavior).
  • Several note the same dynamic appears across cultures (Latino "envidia," Nigeria, Eastern Europe).
  • The "evil hides behind a woman's smile" line was widely praised.
  • Notable pushback: multiple commenters argue men do plot rivals' downfall and gloat too, just more covertly.
  • One viewer claims women's workplace and political prominence has spread this backbiting to men in female-heavy offices.
  • Many comments are memorials to the host (Gonzalo / Coach Red Pill), noting he has died.