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5 Tips To Melt Your Crush's Heart Effortlessly

Channel: Psych2Go
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIj5cWBIb1c

Five tactics the channel suggests for getting a crush to like you before asking them out.

Key points

  • Talk about both your passions and theirs; people light up discussing what they love, making for engaging conversation.
  • Build confidence, since people admire it; get comfortable around your crush and take care of yourself to bring it out.
  • Keep good eye contact, including during silent moments. Cites a Your Tango / New York Times piece on research by social psychologist Arthur Aaron: prolonged eye contact can improve the odds two people fall in love, the main factors being that the other person seems appropriate/desirable and that there is reason to think they are genuinely interested.
  • Do not shy away from making the first move; it takes confidence (seen as admirable) and gives you a quick read on whether they like you.
  • Casually and subtly touch them (a playful touch on the arm, a goodbye hug) during flirty conversation, as long as you are not strangers and they do not look uncomfortable.