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#3 Ways to Make a Woman Addicted to You

Channel: Chris Canwell
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LybihwD3hwc

The speaker's core claim: three behaviors make a woman addicted to a man, being ambitious, making bold moves, and getting her to chase and invest in you.

Key points

  • Be ambitious. The speaker claims studies show men with more drive and purpose attract more women, who see them as high value. Make yourself, not the woman, your purpose; invest in yourself first and she will invest in you.
  • Make bold moves. Ask her out, push for the kiss and intimacy without apologizing. "You either make a move and get rejected or you don't make a move and you still get rejected", so act. Claim: even if she pulls back or says slow down, the move lights up "attraction switches" and she cannot stop thinking about you.
  • Get her to chase and invest. What matters is not how much you invest in her but how much she invests in you (intimacy, emotion, time). Her investment beats buying gifts or trying to win her over. When she initiates and reaches out, she feels you are a challenge and a mystery she must work to win, especially if you are ambitious with other things going on.

Reception

  • Strongly positive and engaged; the top comment ("I'd rather get rejected than regret not making a move") and several others endorse the bold-move advice, and many appreciate the short, straight-to-the-point delivery.
  • Multiple viewers recapped the three points as a takeaway and said they have tried them and found them true; one credited the channel with teaching what their fathers never did.
  • A common addition was a "fourth point": become emotionally unavailable, since women want what they cannot have.
  • Pushback on the "get her to chase/invest" idea framed it as attracting gold diggers, with jokes about her taking all your money; one noted that with social media, high-status men no longer need women to chase.
  • A dissent argued that for unattractive men the make-a-move strategy means hundreds of rejections, and that raising your own attractiveness is the better investment.