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5 Ways Women Fall in Love

Channel: Psych2Go
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0AWMo_ugfw

The channel claims women fall in love differently from men, learning to love over time through emotional and intellectual connection rather than initial physical attraction.

Key points

  • She needs to know you as a person: women build memories, share secrets and have deep conversations before falling in love. Men need initial attraction first; women learn to love over time, which the channel claims makes such relationships longer-lasting once physical attraction fades.
  • She needs to know what you think: estrogen is tied to memory, abstract thinking and webbed thinking, so she is drawn to a man's way of thinking, intelligence and shared views (political, social, religious). Subconsciously she wants a mate capable of logic who can protect and provide.
  • She needs to know you are a good conversationalist: enjoyable, unforced conversation builds intimacy; comfortable silence matters too.
  • She needs to know you are reliable: framed as biological, since women are "programmed to be child bearers" and select a mate who could provide for and father a potential child, making them more selective.
  • She needs to know she can be herself: vulnerability and being her full true self, even in private or embarrassing moments. Women build walls and need a partner to prove he will always be there before they open up.

Note: claims are the channel's assertions; biology/hormone framing (estrogen, "child bearers") is asserted without cited studies.