How to Attract Women With Your Body Language (Examples)

Channel: Dan Bacon
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkUfwVoCLfA

The speaker claims a man's body language matters far more to a woman's attraction than hers does to his, because it reveals his inner confidence or insecurity, and offers three body-language fixes that supposedly signal masculinity.

Key points

• Core premise: women sense what a man feels on the inside through his body language; he cannot hide or fake it. Confidence attracts; fear, self-doubt, timidity, neediness turn women off.
• Turn your head fully when looking at her. Insecure men sneak side glances or pretend to look past her. A confident man turns his head, looks directly, then returns to what he was doing, unafraid of being caught. Distinct from creepy glaring/staring, which is also unattractive.
• Scan her up and down once, then settle without flinching or correcting. Done confidently, it makes her feel under a masculine man's attention and feminine; done insecurely (darting eyes, looking away, fidgeting afterward) it reads as sleazy or creepy and turns her off. Once is enough.
• Make minimal adjustments when she enters your space (e.g. in a loud venue). An insecure man gets fidgety, over-smiles, visibly excited that she is close; a faked stiff non-reaction also signals insecurity. A confident man makes only slight, subtle moves so she stays comfortable in his space.
• Broader claim: men who "grow into their masculinity" early (school/university age) stand out and attract women; most men supposedly don't reach that comfort until around 40. There is nothing wrong with being masculine and women are attracted to it.

Reception

• Warm and appreciative overall; many commenters single out the speaker's comedic impressions of "what not to do" as accurate and entertaining.
• A recurring theme is recognition: several say they were guilty of the exact insecure habits described (the side-eye, looking past her, fidgeting) and assumed it was just them until the video named it.
• Some report applying the techniques with claimed success, including an older man saying he regularly dates much younger women and another describing dominating an interaction; one questioner asks how to stay detached after attracting a woman.
• A minority note a downbeat counterpoint: one says the dating pool has dried up for an average working man in a major city, struggling to even meet women.