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99.9% of Girls Chase You When You Say "THIS"

Channel: Bobby Rio
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RkDNenCvqsQ

Five things to say (and one not to say) that Bobby claims make a woman fall for you, built on the idea that ambiguity and letting her feel she is winning you over drive attraction.

Key points

  • Men with feelings tend to say the wrong things, especially over-complimenting.

The techniques

  • Make compliments feel earned and specific. Don't blurt praise or compliment generic looks; reveal slowly, as if she is winning you over. The "golden mirror": tie a compliment to her dream (e.g. telling an aspiring psychiatrist she is easy to confide in), then puncture the tension with a playful line ("too bad you're such a dork"). This positions you as the selector, not the selected.
  • Be a meaning maker / mental challenge. Women read deeper meaning into your actions and words; the harder you are to decipher, the more invested she gets. Mixed messages (say you like her, then pull back) keep her thinking about you. Use sparingly.
  • Use her name with eye contact to manufacture intimacy and a spark.
  • Future projecting. After a photo, joke "we'd make some good looking babies," then move on -- anchoring a shared future and prompting her to imagine sleeping with you.

  • Stop telling her what she wants to hear. Confessing feelings too soon hands her the power, kills the mystery, and robs her of the fantasy of confessing first. "We love to buy but hate to be sold" -- keep it under the radar so chasing you feels like her idea; you cannot convince a woman to like you.

  • Underlying claim: there is a fixed process every woman goes through to fall in love, and doing the techniques in a specific order works even on a woman who has rejected or friend-zoned you.

Reception

  • Notably skeptical and divided; the single most-liked comment is "I'll stay single. Thank you," and many echo that it is too much work, too many games, or that women are "too complicated."
  • A meaningful contingent rejects the manipulation framing outright -- calling the techniques "dreamkillers," arguing love should not be a game, and saying women want authenticity over an alpha act.
  • Some practical agreement, especially on complimenting what a woman does/controls rather than her looks, and one detailed comment about genuinely making a woman feel "seen."
  • Several jokes at the title's expense (shouting "This!" in a bar, "I won the Powerball" as the real chase trigger).
  • A few report partial success or confusion (one says women told him they "couldn't figure him out" yet still left him), and others stress getting your own life in order so women chase you naturally.