IT MAKES THEM PROCESS!! Your silence will communicate more than your words ever could¶

Pulling back and giving an avoidant space is more effective than chasing them -- silence creates curiosity where words create pressure.

Key points¶

Chasing an avoidant pushes them away; stopping the chase lets their nervous system settle and makes them notice your absence.
When they reach out after space, respond warmly but don't rush into deep talks or demand closeness.
Don't use space as a manipulation tactic -- practice genuine security and let them come to you.
Their curiosity about you, sparked by your calm withdrawal, is what draws them back.