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WOMEN CRUSH Men who give "MUTUAL RESPECT" and Care for them in relationships (Dark Female Nature)

Channel: Casey Zander
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhDF7d8ahzU

The speaker argues that women do not reciprocate "mutual respect" or care, and that treating a woman well lowers her attraction because her desire is driven by hypergamy and "interest tests" rather than logic.

Key points

  • The claim: women cannot reciprocate care or interest the way men expect. Offering "mutual respect" or expecting reciprocation kills desire and chemistry.
  • What men read as games, nagging, or mixed signals are "interest tests" measuring a man's interest level. The more interest you show, the harder the tests get and the worse her behavior, ending in a pullback.
  • Treating a woman well signals she "has to" be treated that way, which signals lower sexual market value (SMV). She then doubts whether you could attract a woman as attractive as her, and places you in a lower psychological "league."

  • A woman leaves only when she feels she can do better; often she cannot, but she is driven by hypergamy, a feeling she cannot fully override. So it is "not her fault" and "not your fault" -- men were sold false ideas of love by media, music, Valentine's Day.

  • Tension and urgency. Chemistry requires tension plus urgency on her side; without it desire dies. Predictability in long-term relationships removes tension, killing desire. Her urgency comes from emotional investment; a man's urgency comes from sex drive and signals scarcity and lower value, an attraction killer.

  • Guy one (rich, tall, fit, devoted) gets left because he fails interest tests; guy two (broke, indifferent) hooks her faster because hypergamy is a feeling, not a resume.
  • The "whole game." Pre-sex stage is shit-tests; post-sex is "booty-whipping tests" to see if you have gone weak. Advice: stretch the timeline before the first date, do not be needy, and "do the opposite" of your male logical intuition.
  • A man's edge is that a woman cannot see his true SMV; aim for her respect, admiration, and loyalty rather than sex. No one is immune (cites Leonardo DiCaprio, Drake).

Reception

  • Strongly receptive, near-devotional comment section; many call the breakdown logical and say it matches their experience.
  • Repetition is welcomed: several say their brains need the constant reminder to undo years of "blue pill" conditioning.
  • Multiple personal testimonials of pain (a 17-year marriage divorce, 20+ years of being "walked all over") credited as confirmation of the thesis.
  • A recurring theme: acting indifferent or uninterested drew more attraction, while showing genuine interest killed it.
  • Notable pushback in an otherwise agreeing thread: one top comment finds the advice exhausting and bleak, asking whether dating is really just being "a wall of uncertainty" who never makes an effort.