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Never Trust Women's Words--Only Trust Their Actions | Coach Red Pill

Channel: CRP Archive
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHr1Dx_WQPk

The speaker argues that men should disregard what women say and judge them solely by their actions, framing women's speech as a tool for managing social friction rather than stating intent.

Key points

  • Core claim: never believe a woman's words, no matter how reasonable they sound; trust only her actions.
  • Men and women use language differently, in his telling: men use words to communicate what they will do (the "hunt the mastodon" example), while women use words for social cohesion and to smooth over friction.
  • Illustration: two women who fight will talk endlessly until they are best friends again, without ever solving the underlying problem; words act as social "epoxy."
  • A woman will say whatever is necessary to get what she wants from a man she has need of (not love of); if she wants nothing from him, she simply tells him to go away.
  • This is not lying or immorality, he insists: morality does not enter into it. Women use words utilitarianly, the way men use tools, and genuinely believe they are just solving a social problem.
  • Says even highly intelligent men (his "nuclear physicist" example) get fooled because they find women attractive and take their words at face value.
  • Cites the Bible as a "repository of human truths" full of lying women (Delilah), and points to the Kavanaugh hearings and Christine Blasey Ford as a contemporary example of a woman he claims was lying.
  • Practical tests: if she says she will leave you and hates you, show her the door and see if she actually goes; treat claims about past partner counts or spending as smoothing words.
  • Takeaway: accept women as they are rather than as you want them to be, watch actions over words, and you will be happier.

Reception

  • Strongly approving; many call the advice harsh but true and broadly applicable.
  • Top comment recounts that judging by actions rather than words stopped the writer getting hurt, realizing an ex loved the attention rather than him.
  • Several extend the principle to everyone, not just women ("actions speak louder than words").
  • A number of comments mourn Gonzalo Lira by name, with RIP messages noting his death.
  • Some offer supporting one-liners, including a Sophocles quote ("The oaths of a woman I inscribe on water") and a journalism maxim ("If your mother says she loves you, check it out").
  • A few share personal anecdotes applying the lesson to business decisions and relationships.