Women Crave Sex When You Do This¶

The speaker claims a woman craves sex when a man shows he does not need it from her; pursuing sex openly hands her power and kills desire.

Key points¶

Distinguishes a woman who merely sleeps with you from one who truly desires you: the latter goes out of her way to please you, while the former just goes through the motions.
The way to make a woman crave sex is, counterintuitively, to not want it or give the impression you crave it yourself.
Verbally or explicitly signaling you want sex (asking if she's coming back to your place, etc.) removes tension, mystery, and challenge.
Uses the "mystery box" analogy from storytelling and magicians: not knowing what's inside is more powerful than knowing; keep her wondering about you.
Making it obvious you want sex shows her you have a weakness, which gives her power over you; once she has power, she loses attraction.
The man must be unfazed if she declines sex for a night or two; if she feels you don't need sex from her, she will give you "all the sex in the world."
Compares to men who crave love: the desperate ones are denied, while men who don't want love get all the affection.
Claims "players" and "bad guys" get plentiful sex because they see many women at once, so one woman withdrawing doesn't faze them, making them more attractive.
Warns that men 100% invested in one woman make her their only source of sex and affection, so they "lose their mind" when she withdraws.
Bottom line: having options and not needing sex from any one woman makes every woman find you sexually attractive.

Strongly agreeing; the top comment describes never pushing for sex and finding the woman almost always brings it up first, focusing instead on fun, getting to know her, and teasing.
A repeated theme is "the less you need, the more you get," with comparisons to not chasing and to refusing a woman who pushes for money.
Some add tactical nuance: read her mood rather than try to create it, hold off on a first-date kiss to signal neutrality, and use light teasing or touch to gauge interest.
A long thread centers on one commenter stuck in a years-long friend zone; others advise walking away for good, leveling up at the gym and financially, or accepting she is not interested.
A few caution the indifference can be overdone and ask for help finding the balance between teasing and seeming uninterested.