The 2 Sexual Secrets Women Will Never Tell You¶

Channel: Chris Canwell
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCEmQs38SgU

Chris Canwell claims women have two "dark" sexual fantasies they will not admit to, and that men can act on one of them (dominance) to build attraction.

Key points¶

First "secret": women are attracted to dominant men and have a dominance fantasy (being controlled, restrained, physically taken charge of). He says women will rarely admit this, partly because they often do not consciously know what turns them on, so asking them directly is counterproductive.
Second "secret": a rape fantasy (the non-consent fantasy of being taken by force) tied to dominance, which he claims appears in "many scientific journals." He stresses it is about a controlled fantasy figure a woman already finds desirable, and draws a sharp line between the fantasy and reality, calling the real-world act traumatic and devastating. (The word "rape" is beeped out in the video and blanked in the captions; commenters name it explicitly.)
His advice: do not act on the second fantasy; only act on dominance by being assertive and dominant in bed. He claims about 80% of women are into being dominated.
Frames it in masculine/feminine energy terms: domination and penetration as masculine, submission and receptivity as feminine.

Note: the video says its claims rest on scientific research and "many scientific journals" (and his book "based on over 120 scientific studies") but cites no specific study.

Reception¶

Mixed and often jokey; many comments dance around the censored second fantasy rather than engage with the thesis.
Some agreement with the dominance/lead-and-she-follows framing ("you will either dominate or be dominated"; "when you lead, she'll follow").
A recurring counter-theme adds its own "secrets" (a woman's body count and past) and warns the second fantasy is risky and could be used against a man.
Several commenters are skeptical or dismissive, and one says the tips changed his mind enough to buy the book.