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Channel: Mack Herman
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=go_NE9M4MYw

A continuation listing avoidant pull-away tactics 8 through 14, covering digital distancing, hot-and-cold behavior, blame-shifting, vague space requests, and emotional shutdown after vulnerability.

Key points

  • 8: deleting or blocking on socials -- archiving photos, muting stories, unfollowing; digital disappearing.
  • 9: going hot and cold -- all-in one day, distant the next; an internal tug of war, not a reflection of you.
  • 10: blaming you for their discomfort -- "you're too emotional, you expect too much" -- flipping the script to justify pulling away.
  • 11: asking for space with no time frame or check-ins, leaving you in limbo.
  • 12: reconnecting with an ex or old friend when intimacy with you feels too real.
  • 13: becoming hyper-independent ("I don't need anyone"), pushing away the closeness they actually want.
  • 14: shutting down emotionally after a vulnerable moment -- intimacy triggered fear, so they go MIA.