They are watching.....so does that mean they are going to reach out? Maybe, there's more to unpack¶

An avoidant who keeps watching your stories without reaching out is showing affection in the only form that costs them nothing.

Key points¶

Avoidants self-soothe by observing from a distance; reaching out would mean vulnerability and risk of rejection.
They watch to check if you are okay, if you have moved on, or if it is safe to move closer -- hovering instead of engaging.
Silent, distant, controlled watching is what avoidant affection looks like: care up to the point that costs them nothing.
Watching is easier than facing you; it carries no risk of exposure.
If monitoring their views hurts your peace, muting or blocking is a valid choice.