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6 Psychological Ways To Tell If Your Crush Likes You

Channel: Psych2Go
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_XSxAVa6oI

Six body-language and physiological cues the channel claims signal that a crush is attracted to you.

Key points

  • They act flustered and nervous around you: stammering, sweating, clammy hands. Cited claim that sexual arousal shuts off parts of the prefrontal cortex (critical thinking, rational behavior, self-awareness), making people act "silly."
  • They remove barriers between you and lean toward you. Per psychologist Jack Schaefer, people lean toward those they like and away from those they dislike; inward leaning increases as rapport grows (head, then shoulders, then torso). A barrier means weak rapport, not necessarily dislike.
  • They mirror your behavior, gestures, and speech. The "chameleon effect": people subconsciously mimic those they like.
  • Their pupils dilate when looking at you. Per body-language expert Patti Wood (Success Signals), dilation is a brain response to attraction.
  • Their face flushes or blushes when they see or talk to you, driven by an adrenaline kick.
  • Their smile is a genuine Duchenne smile (zygomaticus major lifts the mouth, orbicularis oculi crinkles the eyes into crow's feet), signaling real happiness versus a polite or forced smile.