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The Peaks of Men's and Women's Attractiveness | COACH RED PILL

Channel: CRP Archive
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ij669IBA1Fg

The speaker presents a self-made chart claiming men and women peak in sexual attractiveness at opposite ages, and argues young men should avoid getting locked into marriage before their own peak arrives.

Key points

  • The speaker's chart: women peak at 20-21 (rated 100 percent) then slowly decline, while men peak in their 40s, roughly ages 44-51.
  • A man's attractiveness, he claims, comes from social position and success in the world, not money; money is merely a signifier of that position.
  • He recounts being a "loser" with women in his teens and 20s, then experiencing a "reverse wall" in his 30s as career success made younger women take notice.
  • A woman's so-called wall at 30 is, in his telling, not a sudden drop but the moment she perceives her own slow decline and begins to panic.
  • Core warning: men in their early 30s, coming off years of loneliness, settle for the first 30-something woman who "locks them down," not realizing their peak years are still ahead.
  • He attributes this dynamic to a "deregulated sexual marketplace" with no social pressure to pair up young, and dismisses romantic ideals of "the one" as destructive illusions.
  • Advice to young men: endure loneliness, focus on career and prospects in your 20s, and do not commit early; the best opportunities arrive in the 40s.
  • He frames the ideal outcome as having several children with a young, energetic, good-looking woman.

Reception

  • Strongly positive; many top comments call it among his best and say it reframed their outlook.
  • A father reports advising his college-age son not to settle, echoing the thesis; another commenter praises that as a gift.
  • A self-described divorce lawyer agrees fit men with money are "spoiled for choice" later in life.
  • Heavy memorial sentiment (RIP Gonzalo Lira) runs throughout.
  • Notable pushback: some say men in their 40s rarely attract quality 21-year-olds and call the claim copium; one asks who finds women more attractive at 25 than 20.