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How to Attract a SUPER Hot Girl in 10 Seconds (BLOWS HER MIND)

Channel: Dan Bacon
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j7Cbo2D2knc

Dan Bacon argues that a man can attract a very attractive woman within seconds by approaching her directly with unapologetic confidence and desire, something he says 99% of men are too afraid to do.

Key points

  • Most men assume a "super hot" woman is taken, out of their league, or sick of being approached, and so do nothing. That assumption leaves an opening for the man who actually approaches.
  • He claims attractive women are approached less than people think, and mostly by drunk or half-hearted men who do not really put themselves on the line. Genuinely confident, direct approaches are rare.
  • Example 1: a community member walked over within seconds with a look that said "I'm going to get you"; the woman later said his evident desire and guts attracted her fast, even though he was not especially confident inside.
  • Example 2 (his own conversation starter): walking up to the two "hottest girls in here" and asking why no one is talking to them; he says women almost always agree, thank him, and open up.
  • Example 3: he approached a 6-foot catwalk model at 5'9" with "I like tall girls," delivered with presence rather than apology; she came to his place the next night. He frames this as the moment he realized his results were skill, not luck.
  • Core claim: attraction is a "button" you can learn to push. Confidence is one of many ways (he says he teaches over 100). The key is not seeing the woman as higher-value than you; men who put attractive women on a pedestal sabotage themselves.
  • Caveats stated: it will not work on every woman, and it does not make him the most attractive man she has ever met, only attractive enough in that moment to create an opportunity.

Reception

  • Positive among the regular audience; several men say this matches their own past successes with very attractive women and that going for hot women rather than "easier" average ones raised their success rate.
  • The conversation-starter lines (especially the "no one's talking to you" opener) and the catwalk-model story were singled out as favorites.
  • Recurring practical question: commenters ask how exactly to "push the button," with Dan Bacon replying via examples and links to other videos.
  • One detailed thread involves a viewer whose religious-conflicted partner went cold after sex; Dan Bacon's long reply (don't pursue the relationship, just keep attracting) drew engagement.