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10 Signs They're Just Being Nice, But Not Into You

Channel: Psych2Go
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kWTU1VngaUc

Ten behavioral signs that someone sees you as a friend rather than a romantic interest, per the channel.

Key points

  • They don't reciprocate: you always initiate conversations and plans, and aren't a priority for them.
  • They seem confused, uncomfortable, or indifferent when you subtly try to ask them out.
  • They openly talk to you about their own crushes and flings.
  • They act overly casual and unfiltered around you (changing in front of you, eating messily), without the self-presentation pressure attraction brings.
  • They bring other people along when you hang out, possibly as a boundary or buffer.
  • They say things that undercut the feelings you thought they had; learn to take compliments at face value.
  • They quickly deny or brush off teasing that pairs you two together.
  • They "ship" you with others and happily try to find you a partner, showing no jealousy.
  • They mainly contact you to ask for favors (errands, homework answers, covering shifts).
  • They ask you to set them up with one of your friends.

Note: framed as the channel's general advice; no studies cited despite a reference to "references and studies" in the description.