Love Is A Spell Women Put On Men to Get Married¶

A short clip arguing that romantic love does not make a marriage work and that a partner's character, not love, determines marital risk.

Key points¶

Claims that believing love makes a marriage work is a "dangerous" belief.
Frames early romantic love (the butterflies and novelty) as a temporary "spell" women put on men that ropes them into a fantasy.
Argues marriage is what happens after that love fades, when the real work begins.
Concludes that the character of the woman a man marries -- not love -- determines the risk he will encounter.

Note: the title and framing are provocative ("a spell women put on men"); the clip is brief and asserts these claims without evidence.