15 Signs She Is Scared That She Loves You & Afraid Of Commitment (How Does She Feel About Me?)¶

Lists 15 signs that a woman loves you but is scared to commit or be vulnerable, and suggests reassurance as the response.

Key points¶

She is vulnerable around you and lets her walls down (and trusts you will wait if she puts them back up).
She asks for your opinion and values your input on her decisions.
She seems to "read your mind" / read your moods (framed as feminine intuition).
She is scared to lose you, which can lead to self-sabotaging distance; reassure her you are not going anywhere.
She tells you what she likes about you, often in small offhand comments.
She sends you songs that remind her of you.
Her friends know all about you, signaling she is ready to commit without saying so.
She flirts via text but not in person, fearing vulnerability; start flirting in person to build trust.
Her body language is flirty/caring -- touch, loving looks, eye contact.
She asks about your life, including whether you have other girlfriends, to gauge where she fits.
She says sorry a lot, a sign of nervousness.
She takes care of you (coffee, favorite food, not letting you lift a finger).
She bumps into you in unexpected places to stay on your mind.
She is shy and nervous around you (fiddling, looking down).
She tells you she is taking her walls down, a near-final step before committing.

Throughout, the recommended response is to reassure her and tell her you feel the same so she feels safe to commit.