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You Can Get Any Girl Money and Looks Don't Matter 7 of 7

Channel: CRP Archive
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIjj0CKttaU

The speaker argues that money and looks are not what attract women -- confidence is, and money is merely a byproduct of the success that produces that confidence.

Key points

  • Core claim: you can get any girl; money, looks, and youth do not matter -- confidence does.
  • "Defeatists" who insist you need money or looks are, he says, confusing correlation with causation: rich men attract women not because of the money but because of the confidence that comes from succeeding at work. Money is a byproduct of that success.
  • Few women are actually gold diggers; most never want to be seen as one, and a man's wealth can even make a woman shy away despite being attracted to his confidence.
  • Confidence signals control of one's environment, which reads as safety and security. He ties this to women's evolutionary drive to secure a protector, noting a human child is helpless and dependent far longer (he says walking takes ~1.5-2 years, full self-sufficiency until ~12) than other mammals.

How to build confidence

  • Long-term and deepest: professional success and achieving your goals.
  • Quick fixes: lifting weights (he suggests a 90-day routine), sharp clothes, even plastic surgery -- these give a confidence boost but muscle alone is of limited value (a strong man is just a "bouncer" to a successful one). He notes some men exude unearned confidence (invokes Dunning-Kruger) and still attract women.

Looks and age

  • Looks matter mainly to high-school-age girls, who chase "pretty boys" (Justin Bieber, David Cassidy). Around 18-20 women shift to valuing confidence, gravitas, and presence -- college athletes, then professionally established older men. He cites George Clooney's projected aura as the draw.
  • Some successful, confident men still fail with women simply because they have not learned how to interact; he urges enduring the humiliation of practice rather than rationalizing being alone, ignoring women, or going MGTOW (which he says is fine only for a phase of life).

Reception

  • Strongly positive; many call the speaker a genius and credit him with major personal influence.
  • The central pushback (top comment) and others: even if confidence is the key, it is hard to manufacture without looks, money, or some real win to feel like a winner.
  • One detailed dissent: a broke but confident friend attracted women but could not keep them once reality set in, so confidence alone sustains only one-night stands.
  • Some endorse the lifting advice; one offers a SWOT-analysis self-assessment as a concrete path to confidence.
  • Several memorial tributes (RIP Gonzalo Lira); a few mock his appearance and living in Ukraine as incongruent with the message.