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Why The Strongest Action Always Attracts Women

Channel: Chris Canwell
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdlXOrY7qvM

The speaker's core claim: when unsure how to act with a woman, always choose the strongest course of action, which is also the most attractive.

Key points

  • The strongest form of action makes you the most attractive man and puts your life in the best position; when unsure, ask "what is the strongest course of action, and what is the weakest?"
  • Breakup anecdote: a girlfriend summons a man to a coffee shop, dumps his clothes on the table, and ends it. He chases her out, begs, then floods her with pleading messages, the weakest possible response.
  • The strongest response: take the clothes, say "thanks, see you never," and be willing to walk away.
  • When she sees you are unaffected and indifferent/apathetic to the outcome, she finds you attractive and questions her decision.
  • Honesty caveat: a man in this situation probably reached it through a series of earlier weak decisions.
  • General rule: always do the strongest thing (walking away, ignoring her); the strongest course is the most attractive course.
  • Book/consultation pitch dropped.

Reception

  • Strong agreement; commenters distilled the message as "walk away and stay gone," "mirror her level of interest," and "conduct yourself as though you can replace her," with several saying women only respect strength.
  • The most-liked comment reframed it as doing nothing being the best move about 90% of the time.
  • Multiple personal anecdotes report the tactic working: men who cut off a wavering partner mid-sentence, refused a "break," or moved on say the woman shut up, came back, or that they found someone better.
  • Several extended the principle beyond dating, calling the strongest move usually the best move in life generally.
  • A small dissent: a couple of remarks found it grating that women supposedly need to be treated this way, and one sarcastically suggested asking for a refund on the speaker's education.