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5 Signs Someone Thinks About You A Lot

Channel: Psych2Go
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pinjY_9GF9k

Five behaviors the channel claims signal that someone has you frequently on their mind.

Key points

  • Frequent texting: reaching out often, even for trivial reasons (a "saying hi" text, a meme), signals you occupy their thoughts. Attributed to Yale social psychologist Dr. John Bargh.
  • Remembering small details: recalling minor quirks or offhand comments (e.g. surprising you with your favorite childhood dessert) reflects how often they think of you. Attributed to Dr. Arthur Aron.
  • Appearing in their dreams: recurring as a character in someone's dreams may indicate their waking mind is often occupied with you. Attributed to Carl Jung, who viewed dreams as a window into the unconscious.
  • Protective behavior: standing up for you or ensuring you get home safely stems from thoughts invested in your well-being. Attributed to Dr. Elaine Hatfield.
  • Looking forward to seeing you: eyes lighting up and visible anticipation on sight, even in passing, reflects your image occupying their mind. Attributed to Dr. Susan Sprecher.

Note: claims are the speaker's assertions; named researchers are cited but no specific studies are given.