When Your Woman Says To You "We're Not Clicking" | CRP

Channel: CRP Archive
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6GpJv98AXc

The speaker decodes the phrase "we're not clicking" as a woman's way of saying she is bored, and argues she is bored because the man does whatever she wants instead of leading.

Key points

• "We're not clicking," delivered out of irritation and usually in a public place, translates to "you bore me" and signals the woman is already pulling away (often, he claims, cheating). He dates it to a 1991 college acquaintance whose girlfriend said this, then was caught with another guy two days later.
• Men are socialized in liberal Western democracies to do whatever a woman wants, reinforced by being raised by single moms and taught by women or "soy boy" male teachers. This "nice guy" compliance is the problem.
• Women say they want a man who listens and obeys, but actually want the opposite: a man who is independent and takes charge regardless of what she wants or expects. He references his own video on ignoring what women say versus what they do.
• A compliant man produces two reactions: dissatisfaction (he becomes her plaything) and fear. The fear stems from women allegedly mistrusting their own instincts and being insecure decision-makers, so they want a "rock" who will not be blown around by their emotional "winds."
• He frames this as biology: humans are animals driven to reproduce; a woman's psychology is geared toward children even when she consciously wants none, and hormones dominate her emotions. She seeks a man steady enough to be trusted "when the chips are down."
• Claims women never reject the man who does what he wants and stay "ride or die" with him; the remedy is to stop deferring and lead. Aimed explicitly at men who keep hearing "we're not clicking," not those already successful with women.

Reception

• Largely admiring, treating the video as a classic ("solid gold," "one of his most important videos," "Free Gonzalo Lira"); several note this is a re-upload archive after his original channel was taken down.
• A few share personal confirmation, saying women begged when ignored and left when loved.
• Some pushback: one commenter says it is not a guaranteed formula and that grinding does not make women suddenly care.
• A recurring tangent debates Lira's origins (born in Chile vs. USA, raised in the States, later lived in Kiev).
• One asks a follow-up the video does not address: what happens once women are past child-rearing years, in their late 40s and 50s.