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How WOMEN artificially INFLATE their VALUE to make MEN CHASE (advanced female nature interest tests)

Channel: Casey Zander
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufeik8jpV90

The speaker argues women "artificially inflate" their value through time delays and fear-of-loss tactics to make men chase, and that the counter is patience, abundance, and masculine indifference.

Key points

  • A woman's core aim is said to be making the man pursue so she keeps the power; she gives minimal effort while keeping him "on the hook" to gauge how many other options he has. Indifference to her tests signals high value.
  • Claimed motives: insecurity and "competition anxiety," wanting validation from being wanted, wanting to feel like the prize, protecting her emotions from masculine indifference, and filtering/disqualifying low-value men.
  • Mating-strategy framing: men optimize for quantity, women for quality, so women operate on an extended time horizon. Real love (distinct from sex) is claimed to take 3 to 6 months to form as she tests for safety and security.

  • Urgency is said to kill attraction; men ruin things by over-pursuing texts, dates, and matches.

  • Stage one (before consistent dating) -- time delays: social-media "choosing signals" (hearts, laugh reacts) followed by 12-48 hour or multi-day reply gaps, "so busy" or "totally forgot to reply" excuses, and unreturned calls to make him chase.

  • Stage two (consistent dating) -- fear of loss: scandalous selfies, going out with girlfriends and going silent 16-18 hours, and Do Not Disturb to make him wonder who she is with. Framed as testing his reaction, not seeking another man.
  • He claims these tactics backfire on women, who supposedly cannot perceive time, never "consolidate," and end up single and childless in their 30s.
  • Counters offered: Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power "mirror effect" (Law 44) -- mirror her time delays and indifference; consistently raise your sexual market value; and date in abundance so no single woman creates desperation.

Reception

  • Strongly positive; many call it among his best content, with several older men (55, 65, 73) saying they wish they had heard it when young.
  • The line "these women are not your friend... not your mom" was widely quoted as a standout.
  • Commenters most endorsed the "test how many options you have" framing and dating multiple women to kill neediness and avoid one-itis.
  • Pushback was mild: one noted that using their tactics and having options is "easier said than done" and requires real internal non-neediness, not just available options.
  • Some debated whether a woman can like a man for liking her, suggesting liking and lust differ and balance is needed.