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5 Non-Verbal Signs Your Crush Likes You

Channel: Psych2Go
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vK0UjNH2Y10

Five body-language and behavioral cues the channel says hint that a crush may like you, drawn from cited psychologists and studies.

Key points

  • Pupil dilation: Dr. David Ludden says eyes reveal emotional state; a 2015 study on pupil size found pupils enlarge with genuine sexual or social interest because we can't control them. If a crush's pupils widen when locking eyes, it may be a sign.
  • Preening: Behaviors that improve one's appearance in social settings (fixing hair, brushing off lint), per researcher John Dally. Mark Knapp's study found people preen more during the flirting/crush phase than in committed relationships.
  • Leaning in / open posture: Couple's therapist Terry Orbuch (Women's Health) says leaning toward you signals interest, trust, and a wish to be closer; angled body or chair positioned near yours is a positive sign, versus closed-off mad posture (crossed arms, turned away).
  • Mirroring: Sex/relationship therapist Courtney Geter says we unconsciously imitate the mannerisms of people we find attractive. Dr. Uri Hasson's fMRI work found a listener's brain activity syncs with the speaker's, a "cerebral bonding."
  • Remembering small details: Therapist Allison Osborne Corcoran says interested people recall minor things you mention (Starbucks order, allergies). Dr. Sandra Langeslag's study found we remember information about people we admire better.
  • Closes that no cue is foolproof; the only sure way to know is to ask.

Note: claims are the channel's; cited studies are named but not verifiable from the video alone.