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ADVANCED TESTS WOMEN give MEN that they VIEW as ATTRACTIVE and ALPHA! (HIDDEN female nature exposed)

Channel: Casey Zander
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xas2mBDiHko

The speaker argues that when a woman acts rude, disagreeable, or distant on a date, it is a subconscious "test" of a man's strength and a sign she finds him attractive, and that passing these tests builds attraction.

Key points

  • Being tested a lot is framed as a good sign: it supposedly means she views you as assertive or alpha and is gauging whether you are high value.
  • Women are said to test for strength, identity, and especially your interest level, which the speaker claims is a direct read on your sexual market value.

Tests to disagree / break congruence

  • She contradicts your stated preference (the "chocolate vs vanilla ice cream" example) to see if you cave; agreeing against your real preference signals weakness.
  • She insults your choices ("ew, gross, that's so boring, so basic, you're so awkward, unoriginal") to see if you backpedal. The advised response is to hold your original position. The speaker says tension like this is how chemistry gets built.
  • Lines like "this won't work" or "you're not my type" are claimed to be the opposite of what she means if you hold frame.

Illusion of purity / innocence

  • Before intimacy women allegedly say "I'm not like most girls," "I don't sleep with just anyone," "I'm different" to paint themselves as pure and have you treat them as girlfriend material.
  • The speaker claims nearly every woman he dated over 10 years used these lines.

Silence as a test

  • Periods of silence are framed as a test of whether you get reactive (blushing, nervous jokes, rushing to fill the gap).
  • Advised handling: stay comfortable, let the silence sit, break it casually with natural mannerisms (commenting on dessert, checking your phone) to show you are unfazed.

Reception

  • Strong agreement that the dynamic is real, but the dominant top-comment sentiment rejects the "pass the test" strategy in favor of walking away or going no contact.
  • Many frame the behavior as power, control, or narcissism and advise ending things rather than tolerating it ("the only correct answer to any test is no contact").
  • Long-married men (27 and ~30 years) confirm the testing never stops, treating it as permanent hardwiring.
  • A popular retort to "I'm not like most girls": "that's what most girls say."
  • The creator replied directly, insisting the tests are subconscious hardwiring and strength indicators, not deliberate cruelty.
  • Some described handling silence well as a natural advantage, while a few shared specific anecdotes of tests they refused to tolerate.