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Women Will Make The Time If She Wants You | CRP

Channel: CRP Archive
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yKKTnEUmq3I

The speaker argues that if a woman is genuinely interested she will always make time for you, so a man should never chase: treat any excuse as disinterest, mentally move on, and let her come to you.

Key points

  • Core claim: when a woman wants to be with you, she will move heaven and earth to make it happen; no obstacle stops her. He illustrates with a story of a hot college student who waited patiently through his post-lecture Q&A and ended up in bed with him that day.
  • When a woman gives an excuse for not meeting (family obligations, scheduling), assume she is not interested. The excuse is just politeness to "smooth the social gears," whether or not it is literally true.
  • Do not chase a woman who is on the fence. Chasing makes you jump through hoops and wastes time and effort.
  • Instead, "next her" instantly, even just mentally. He claims women are intuitive and sense the withdrawal; an ambivalent woman will then panic and start chasing you, which is the goal.
  • It is a numbers game: there are countless women and many ways to meet them via modern communications tech, so no single woman should trip you up. If one is ambivalent, ten more follow.

Advanced "mind game"

  • For a woman already into you, deliberately create obstacles: agree to a date, then cancel an hour or two beforehand with a flimsy excuse, delivered casually rather than apologetically.
  • He claims this intensifies her desire ("blue ovaries"), and warns it can backfire if she over-fixates and the eventual date implodes. He says he mostly pulled it off by accident and only developed the self-control to do it deliberately in his late 30s/early 40s.
  • Frames dating as chess; recommends studying chess for short-term tactics and long-term strategy, and stresses self-control, cold-bloodedness, and making yourself the object of desire.

Reception

  • Strongly positive and nostalgic; many commenters call the videos "pure gold" and mourn the creator (Gonzalo Lira / Coach Red Pill).
  • The top comment dubs it "the Henry Cavill rule": an attractive man gets time made for him, an average one gets excuses; echoed by "people have time for the things they have time for."
  • Several share anecdotes claiming the "stop chasing / go cold" approach worked, including one who says it led to a 21-year marriage and another whose ex sent a long apology after he went quiet.
  • One commenter pushes back, saying his take is not entirely accurate; as a self-rated 7/10 he dated 9s and 10s through patience and playing it cool rather than this exact method.
  • A note of unease appears: one says women now get the same advice, "creating stalemates all over the place," and another laments you cannot be honest with women without playing games.